

I ask students to restore relationships that may have been strained during a conflict, and ask them to accept consequences for their actions when they do make a mistake or hurt someone else. My goal is to treat each student fairly, hold students to high expectations, support them in making the best decisions, and ultimately, give each student a fresh start each day. What caused this? can be an important question when dealing with student conflict or discipline issues. For me, it boils down to the why behind an action.

As one of the adults responsible for keeping all students safe in our school, I always try to address situations with a sense of empathy. Again, the unreliable narrator! In these situations, I might be asked to defend myself, or be criticized for how I handled the situation. Often, the account that a student shares at home may not be the same account shared with me at school. I usually try to provide the most basic facts of what has taken place, and ask parents to speak with their child about what happened. What has given me pause recently is how many parents consider me an unreliable narrator as I reach out to talk to them about what happened. This usually involves discussions with more students before I can confirm that maybe the details provided from the unreliable narrator might be a little bit hazy, at best. In certain situations, I feel like I have the details down when I suddenly realize that I’m dealing with an unreliable narrator. It often involves a lot of he said, she said, and it can be very difficult to narrow down a story to the most basic details. My role usually involves talking to a number of students to find out what actually took place.

I’ve been thinking about the role of the unreliable narrator as I’ve recently dealt with a number of discipline issues at school. Sometimes a plot twist reveals the lack of reliability before the reader even knows they should have some trust issues. Sometimes, the unreliable narrator is revealed to readers gradually throughout the story. There are different types of unreliable narrators. In literature, an unreliable narrator is a character who tells a story with a lack of credibility.
